A native of New York's Spanish Harlem, May Pang grew up with music all around her. From street-corner "do-wop" groups like Dion & The Belmonts -- to the British Invasion of 1964, rock n' roll became May's passion. It was no surprise that when she left college in 1970, she was determined to land a job in the music world.
Only a New York girl would try to start at the top, so she marched into the New York offices of the Beatles' management company, ABKCO Industries, and a career in music was born.
"While I was working at ABKCO, John and Yoko decided to move to New York City...and chose me to be their personal assistant. It was excitement beyond belief! Not only did I have a key role in the records and films of John and Yoko, but I was meeting everyone I'd read about in fanzines since I was a kid."
As exciting as this was, little did she know what fate had in store... "One day in June 1973, Yoko approached me in my office at the Dakota. She explained that she and John needed a break from each other -- which was obvious to everyone around them. She also decided that I would be his 'companion' -- effective immediately. By now, nothing could really come as a shock in the zany world of John and Yoko. But this...this was beyond the pale, even for them."
So began an 18-month relationship that has become known misleadingly as "Lennon's Lost Weekend." During this period, John was actually the most productive and successful in his post-Beatles career. He achieved his first #1 single, "Whatever Gets You Thru The Night", his first #1 album, Walls And Bridges, and was on the forefront of celebrity collaborations working with Elton John, David Bowie, Harry Nilsson and Ringo Starr. During their relationship, May continued as John's production assistant & coordinator at John's request. Her efforts were rewarded with an RIAA Gold Record Award for Walls And Bridges.
In February of 1975, John and Yoko were reunited, so May began the next phase of her life. She worked for Island Records, and coordinated the release of albums by Bob Marley and The Wailers, Robert Palmer and Third World. She then switched to United Artists Music, where she worked with unknown songwriters successfully having their songs recorded by Diana Ross, Four Tops, Air Supply and Judas Priest.
After John Lennon's tragic death in 1980, a lot of myths and misconceptions began surfacing about John and May's time together. In 1983, she decided to set the record straight. Warner Books published her memoir, Loving John, a very insightful look into John's world and his complex relationships with Paul, George, Ringo, his son Julian and, of course, Yoko.
May traveled extensively throughout the 80s, visiting Japan, China and returning to old haunts like Los Angeles and London. It was during one of her visits to London when she reconnected with an old friend, producer Tony Visconti. Soon after, they were married and had two children.
During this time, May tried her hand at acting -- and appeared in several television shows, including The Equalizer and Law and Order, in movies such as Heartburn and Fatal Attraction, and music videos for The Firm and her old pal, David Bowie. She also has been guest on many shows including Howard Stern, Entertainment Tonight, Good Morning America and the BBC.
She also managed Tony's career...but as time went on, the pressures of the business of rock 'n roll took a toll on May and Tony's personal life. Today, May is a full-time single mom -- but her heart's still in rock n' roll. Currently, she's developing a retrospective radio program, tentatively titled May Remembers, is putting together an exhibition of her photos and memories of John Lennon, and has just launched a fashion jewelry line called the May Pang Feng Shui Jewelry Collection.
Our originally scheduled guest, Jerry A. Rodriguez was unfortunately unable to meet our group this past Saturday due to an unforeseen family emergency. Remarkably in the 11th hour, we were able to secure former John Lennon/Yoko Ono personal assistant (and friend of mine), May Pang. Coincidently, tying our That's Science Fiction! viewing of Help! to Face The Fiction. Go us!
We will hopefully be able to reschedule Mr. Rodriguez very soon.
Now back to May. I have known her on and off over the past several years and recently reconnected with her upon the release of her second book, Instamatic Karma, a photojournal of her personal and professional life with John Lennon. Her first book, Loving John, is May's first hand account of her 18-month relationship with John which has inaccurately been dubbed "the lost weekend". As a personal favor to me, May stepped in at the last minute to meet the SFSNNJ, despite her busy itinerary and her on going photographic exhibit at the June Kelly Gallery in NYC. The exhibit is scheduled to run June 12th-June 17th.
When she found out we were a science fiction group, May decided to begin her presentation to us by telling the story of the UFO encounter she and John shared on the rooftop of her NYC apartment building. They both saw an aircraft that didn't look like anything either of them had ever seen, which also seemed to mute all sound beneath it. She has since found descriptions of similar sightings.
Many of our usual suspects were in attendance. Additionally, May brought some of her own fans and friends to the event. Every chair was in use, as well as the Borders' house PA. At one point, I counted at least 45 people attentively listening to May's stories about John, their friendships with Ringo, George, Harry Nilsson and others, as well as her varied career, which never included professional photography --that was always a hobby for her.
Copies of her book Instamatic Karma sold out, including the one purchased by one of the baristas at Borders, who in a very Todd-like move, left her post at the cafe, pushed her way to the front of the line to get May's autograph, and as she walked back to work, clutched the book saying, "I got mine!"
The thunder and lightning more than the heavy rain prevented us from taking May to dinner at the Suburban Diner, but she did say she take a "raincheck" (no pun intended I'm sure!) on that.